We made the choice to go abroad for surrogacy. But now what? Which choices do we have to make?
First of all, it is important to decide in which country we are going to start the journey. The possibilities are: the United States, Mexico and Canada.
As soon as we know in which country we are going to start the journey, we have to decide which organisation (s) we are getting involved with.
Then we have to make the really important choices. Who will be our egg donor and who will carry our future baby? With these choices it is also important that there is someone who wants to help us. Otherwise there are no choices to make.
Finally, we have to make the most difficult decision. Which one of us is going to be genetically the father of the child? We have decided together to make this an easy one. Regardless of whether or not the child is genetically linked to one of us, it will always be a child of ours together. We would like to have at least two children and in this way we both can make our contribution.
Many more questions will have to be answered. But for now we are still busy with these main questions. As soon as we can check one of these questions, I will of course write about this!